by Lee — published on October 31st, 2007

To mediocre minded I merely run an escort service. To them we provide a service they can get anywhere and from their model of the world this is true. Unfortunately, for those who share this belief system they do themselves a disservice. Dreams Escorts doesn’t begin with being just a service ladies and gentleman, Dreams Escorts is actually is the philosophical end result.

Let me explain.

Dreams is my vision of what an Agency should aspire to be. It is the result of an unwavering set of principles, which in turn is manifested by myself and the women who join me. This will in three years or less create the reality of being the respected dominant leader in the South Eastern PA, MD and DC upscale escort market. The Agency isn’t “the dream”, the dream is a direct result of my shared vision.

( How existential… confused yet ? Read on… )

One of the many principles we cover in advanced training is the concept of “caring rapport“. People like people who like them. If you genuinely care about a client’s best interest, they honestly feel this and respond on many levels. Now let’s not confuse having someone’s best interest at heart and letting them have their way. Often what we want, is NOT what we need. I’m not implying I train my people to know what you need, no one can tell you what you need. Only the higher power of whatever name you call him/her can do that. What we teach at Dreams Escorts is to handle each client from a place of genuine caring and access your spiritual mind. A Companion who is able to do this will help the client manifest a positive experience. All men carry a crushing sense of daily obligation, expectation and a skilled escort-companion can help him experience the much needed catharsis of release.

This not so simple concept is one of the many things which defines the ever evolving Dreams vision. Not many people stop to think about it, however if you don’t have a vision you don’t have a journey. If you don’t have a journey, there can never be a destination. If this philosophical paradox is true, then I must ask you, what is a life without a destination ?

There are thousands of people in this industry and I would venture to be bold and say 98% of them function from what I call the physical mind. Meaning it’s all about the “physical”, seeing, thinking and judging only from the material or physical standpoint. As human beings when we operate from the material mind we most often come from a place of “it’s all about me“. The most common manifestation of this is “clock watching” and or the complaint “she just wasn’t there“. In many ways this and a few other concepts we teach helps to move the Dreams Escorts vision forward.

One of the things I look for in hiring a candidate is a natural gravitation to functioning with the “spiritual mind” or if you’re a science guy empathy. You see people who are naturally empathetic tend not to function in a world which revolves around the “me” mind set. This is why strippers as a “group” tend to make lousy escorts. In the collective belief system of strippers, (not to be confused with Dancer /Entertainers) customers exist for them to “play you for the maximum amount of cash, you can stung along for. ” A belief system like this and the Dreams collective company moral framework are fundamentally incompatible.

A side note, many escort neophyte agency owners who don’t understand the concept of “human belief systems” and “target audience” try to recruit women to be escorts from
strip clubs. Usually, this turns out to be a bad idea since these inexperienced owners quickly learn a simple truth. We all may be in the Adult entertainment field, but it’s apples and oranges. As clients you may see it manifest as she’s here today and she’s gone tomorrow.

Translation:
She made a lot of money one week and wont be back until she runs out or rent is due. Other manifestations you may see include cash and dash, rushed service with the hurry up and get lost attitude.

Are all adult entertainers are like this ?

No.

Therefore, if it doesn’t apply to you, don’t get a complex over it. I also should point out in MY belief system there is a distinct difference between an Exotic Dancer/ Entertainer and a stripper.

We have a mission statement which says, Creating a New Agency Standard in PA -MD and DC.

This is my vision. This is the dream which every associate signs on to be a part of when I hire them. Did you know when I close my eyes I can see it clearly ? In my mind it’s already happened. Now, I’m just putting on the finishing touches.

“The empires of the future are empires of the mind.”
—
Winston Churchill

 

Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace ladies and gentlemen.

Lee ^